Gen wrote:people that feel they have to stand an inch away from your face when talking,
you back away only for them to keep moving closer

I can see why if they
were drunk, but for the ones that aren't? come on!

Yes, and especially with tobacco on their breath. It's strong enough at 10 paces already!
I wondered about this one some last year when a woman 65 yrs of age did this with me. She sort of sidles in sideways as if to make one feel like a confidant, a co-conspirator or some other feeling of closeness of some sort, all the while with the tobacco stench.
Then, after saying " I hope we can all get along", some of the coldest people I have ever dealt with.
That particular woman is a liar. Out and out Liar which I only found out months later and made me think about her close conversation style and wonder at it.
That close-up in the face sort of thing is usually an invasion of personal space, unless it is a cultural thing where the space is much smaller than ours. Often done with aggressive purpose and when it happens outside those circumstances is a little different.
Agreed Terri, and it's all small stuff in the relative scheme of things. I had a friend of 85 stop by with someone and all she did was rail about her upset with the flag girl long passed down the road. When I saw her agitation over it still, I silently marveled that a person of ill health,who is so close to death's door had so much angst about it still and I said that about small stuff, her companion jumping on it and agreeing. We are close enough friends that we can remind each other thusly without offense and do welcome that mirror effect friendship sometimes has.
Knowing what bothers others may save me from being offensive .
And it's really funny what bothers OTHER people, isn't it?
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